Maine-et-Loire : en lien avec la gendarmerie, Vanessa Le Derff intervient auprès des victimes de violences conjugales

Agent employée par le département de Maine-et-Loire, Vanessa Le Derff est missionnée auprès de la gendarmerie. Elle intervient notamment à la suite d’une intervention pour des violences conjugales ou intrafamiliales. Rencontre en ce mois de décembre 2020.

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